ABC’s of Small Talk–C

by Jillian Zavitz

C is for common, usually people get along because they have common interests, attitudes, or simply put they have things in common. For example, in a grocery store while queuing up to the cashier , you can try to make a not-so-obvious quick scan at the things the person behind you bought. You notice that you have the same stuff with the person behind you. You can start by saying You’re buying that too? or that’s really delicious (if it has something to do with food, obviously) You just don’t know maybe you’ll end up exchanging recipes.

C is also for compliments. Example: That’s a nice shirt your wearing. Make them feel good about themselves. Start with telling them they look nice, or that they are funny. That will put them in a good mood which will make your conversation nicer and easier.