Alright, now that we’re done with the who, what, where when why of small talks let’s try to make a list of about small talk. Let’s call it the ABC’s of small talk, these are the small talk tips and topics that I have collected from all over.

Let’s start off with A

Age? Hmm not quite safe. In most cultures, I don’t think it’s appropriate to ask someone’s age, because it might be offensive or something.  I think A is for appropriate. You must think of an appropriate topic to start your small talk. Something that won’t offend or make your new friend walk away.(that’s another a-way) .

It serves many functions in helping to make a situation lighter especially when the atmosphere becomes too formal. It helps out break uncomfortable silence between new acquaintances. It also serves to kill time, especially when your hands are tied to engage in something—like I’ve mentioned waiting.  I think small talk is basically to break the ice—break the silence and the monotony of a boring atmosphere.

Source: http://www.englishclub.com/speaking/small-talk_wh.htm

Small talk just happens casually. The moment you meet a person for the first time, when you see your office mate in the lounge, your neighbour who walks by, or when you are in a party or a crowd and you can almost hear a cricket behind your ear, that would definitely warrant a small talk.